1Princess1Prince2006
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jan 18, 2006
Just do the dishes! You have a dishwasher, stick them in there and turn it on to run. If he doesn't like it, try a new detergent, or tell him to wash the plate/bowl/glass that he wants to use, and to get over himself. Dishes can not be left in the sink for 2 weeks, it doesn't matter how many there are. Heck my 11 & 9 year olds even get this concept and can load the dishwasher like pros.
As for eating out being a need vs. want, in our house it is a want. There are nights we want to eat out because of after school activities and crazy schedules, but it doesn't happen. I'm a single mom, with one income, 10% of my income going to take out would buy my daughter 6 months of dance lessons. It just depends on how you look at need vs. want.
OP, I know it can be hard with a new baby in the house and trying to get things done. Been there, done that (twice), but its time to grow up and put the pettiness aside. Time to have a sit down ,make a list of all that needs on a daily basis and split it. Better to have things in order now than when baby grows up and learns bad habits.
As for eating out being a need vs. want, in our house it is a want. There are nights we want to eat out because of after school activities and crazy schedules, but it doesn't happen. I'm a single mom, with one income, 10% of my income going to take out would buy my daughter 6 months of dance lessons. It just depends on how you look at need vs. want.
OP, I know it can be hard with a new baby in the house and trying to get things done. Been there, done that (twice), but its time to grow up and put the pettiness aside. Time to have a sit down ,make a list of all that needs on a daily basis and split it. Better to have things in order now than when baby grows up and learns bad habits.