I guess to me it is hard to understand why anyone places tone on forum posts. It's just something I never do and I never assume. I read and I take each word literally never, ever reading into, or between the lines.
This is a fine statement to make, but whenever a person comes to a board and posts an ambiguous statement with little explanation as to their point of view it can cause misunderstanding. That is why my post are often very thorough, fully expounded and long
. I do not want to leave my opinions and point of view open for incorrect interpretation by strangers. Clarity in ones words can deflect inference of incorrect intention. Just my two cents on that.
I guess to me it would be like saying there are people who live in FL. that are drug addicts and that would be true. But surely you would not assume I meant everyone that lives in FL. is a drug addict.
Nor would any reasonable person make that assumption. In an attempt to make others look foolish, over simplified analogies often are used as a tool to make one seem a little smarter than others (i.e. Ross Perot so many years ago). Clearly stating a thought or idea through carefully crafted verbal expression allows for better understanding amongst this forum community. Most people have posted to this thread without me misunderstanding their intentions, so I am pretty sure the one or two with whom I have not properly understood, and asked for clarification, could shoulder partial responsibility with me for the misunderstanding. Some though will never admit to such a thing.
To me a reverse elitist is someone that puts down someone because they presume that person is putting someone down.
At what point did I put you down??? I have reread my post and have not found this "putting down" you refer to. Matter of fact, I asked you to correct me in the event I was mistaken about your tone. That seems more humble than "reverse elitist", but I could be wrong since it is so hard to see things clearly from my position (looking down on everyone from my lofty perch)
. Forgive me for inflecting tone and humor, I just couldn't resist. Oh, by the way if standing up for others and defending those who may not stand up for themselves is "reverse elitist", I will gladly wear that moniker!
Anyway, thanks for making an attempt to understand, that is more than some would do.
Anytime........I wish people would take the time to concern themselves with how what they write could be perceived by others. Whether we mean to or not, based on the way we word the posts on a thread and our timing in adding to a thread, tone or intention can be applied by the reader.
But it is a fact many stay at the value resorts out of choice, many stay out of financial necessity. There is nothing wrong with either choice, simply fact.
Absolutely, could not agree more!!
I just personally happen to think that some people that do not wisely shop for vacation values, hence my comment about Net forums, do not get discounts on rooms, pay rack rate and think the DDP is a huge value. Based on info shared to be my friends that work for Disney, this affects those that stay at values more than moderates or deluxe resorts. Just as with Free Dining if paying rack rate the bargain is had by staying at value, definitely not deluxe.
Even people who use these forums often do not get many discounts unless the powers that be offer them for a special promotion or some other motivating factor. DW and I have never qualified for any discount tht was not available to the general public. If you have some code we do not have, please share!!!
As for value, I would never be so bold as to define value for others. I find value in things many do not; many find value in things I do not......it's all based on your personal perspective and perception of what a value is.
And as Jodi pointed it out that simply might not be the case as to the true value of the DDP for some.
Again, each person should be allowed to decide value for themselves. To eliminate the DDP as Jodi has advocated would not be the proper solution because it would not guarantee the outcome she desires (an increase in food quality, better availability of seating and more variety at restaurants). This would only guarantee fewer choices for those who do find DDP a value for their trip.
Yes, I will admit to a tone inflected in this post and every other post I have ever made........it is part of having compassion, willingness to understand others and a drive for clear and concise expression of thought and feeling. For this, I do not offer an apology. If I misunderstand someone I will always ask for clarification and offer an apology if my understanding is flawed. Humility and a contrite spirit can go a long way in life.