The soldiers know very well exactly what they are doing.
The Russian people also know by now what is going on. They don't live in a total vacuum. They know.
Some do. Probably many do by now. But I've seen interview after interview of Russians living in Ukraine, literally in the middle of the shelling, who are calling family members back in Russia to tell them what's happening. And the relatives are just like, nope. Putin wouldn't do that (attack without provocation/hit civilian targets/etc.) Think about the political polarization in this country, with an entirely free media. Russia has propaganda TV. Period. Whatever your political persuasion, imagine that the ONLY readily available "news source" is the channel run by your political opposite. A Russian guy who runs a legit website and news outlet for Russians is operating out of Latvia, and I saw an interview with him talking about all the VPNs and proxy servers and everything that Russian people are using to be able to access his coverage. Some are doing that, but again, many don't even believe that they need to. They believe what they're being told on state TV, which is that it's a special operation to take out the Ukranian Nazis.
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