OK...just to further muddy the waters...
I made ADR's for our trip in May. Just 2 A, DH and me, no kids. We don't have any friends or family in FL, so we aren't treating anyone. A couple of our ADR's are for buffets or CB's, so obviously, we have to use 1 TS credit each at those meals. However, for 2 meals we planned to share: lunch one day at Marrakesh, and dinner one night at Raglan Rd. We thought we might order an additional beverage (beer at Raglan Road!) and maybe an extra appetizer or dessert if we felt especially hungry.
Just to recap:
We aren't using TS credits we haven't paid for
We aren't using child's meal credits
We aren't letting someone not on the plan eat the food
The CM who took our reservations said, "No problem". Our TA said, "No problem". Then I started reading Disney Vacation boards. Holy cow, I had no idea there was such a controversy! I've read some really heated debates on both sides of the issue. But some folks were adamant there is NO SHARING of any kind, so I wrote to Disney Guest Relations -- and got a cut and paste reply that I've seen others post:
"Thank you for contacting the Walt Disney World Resort.
The
Disney Dining Plan on your MAGIC YOUR WAY Package Plus Dining
includes One (1) Counter Service Meal, One (1) Snack, and One (1) Table
Service Meal per person, per night for everyone in your vacation plan
party, ages 3+. Meals are nontransferable and sharing is not permitted.
If you have questions or need further assistance, feel free to contact
us."
So I wrote back for clarification, making my letter so outrageously tongue-in-cheek that I knew I would get a personalized reply.
I had to change one of my ADR's, and the CM told me, no problem if my husband and I wish to share a meal -- just let the server know when we order. Oooookay...then I got this "personalized" response from Disney Guest Services:
"Thank you for contacting the Walt Disney World Resort.
Please know meals are nontransferable and sharing is not permitted.
Meal entitlements can not be shared.
Guests may use their Meals and Snacks in any order and any amount
throughout their stay until the total is depleted.
Guests on the dining plan and sitting at a table in a table service
restaurant are not required to use their dining credits for the meal.
Guests may pay for the meal at the time of dining.
If one Guest wishes to use a dining credit and the other Guest in the
party wishes to order food and beverage and pay for it instead of using
their dining credit, that is permitted.
However, ordering one meal and
sharing is not permitted with the dining plan.
We hope this information is helpful and we look forward to your visit."
So. DH will order a meal and tell the server it is on the DDP. I will order a luscious pine float, ie: a toothpick in a glass of water. I will look wistfully at my DH, tummy rumbling, and drool on the table, while he gorges himself on and appetizer, entree, dessert, and beverage.