NHdisneylover
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- Feb 26, 2007
I am one of the posters who think the OP was totally out of line for making that vcomment to her daughter infront of the boyfirend (and to a 19 year old, that ocmment is pretty much out of line all together. I oculd maybe see if she was going with you to a work event, etc and you pulled her aside and said "Mr SO-SO is really conservative; I know you're an adult but will you humor me and button your shirt higher?" but NOT ever if she is going out without you.)
I think the boyfriend's motive was probably:
a. humor to break the tension of OP's totally out of line comment--in which case it is 100% acceptable
b. intentionally meant to push OP's buttons. Given how very much OP clearly hates him and how many htings she has done to make that clear (speaking to his mother wbaout why her DD should not be going to the surgey!, etc) I think, while not the best tract to take, it IS understandable.
OP--reading through your threads, I have to say I am surprised your DD keeps coming home on breaks. HOnestly. I think you mean the best for her and love her but you need to learn to let go before you push her out of your life forever.
I think the boyfriend's motive was probably:
a. humor to break the tension of OP's totally out of line comment--in which case it is 100% acceptable
b. intentionally meant to push OP's buttons. Given how very much OP clearly hates him and how many htings she has done to make that clear (speaking to his mother wbaout why her DD should not be going to the surgey!, etc) I think, while not the best tract to take, it IS understandable.
OP--reading through your threads, I have to say I am surprised your DD keeps coming home on breaks. HOnestly. I think you mean the best for her and love her but you need to learn to let go before you push her out of your life forever.