Scurvy
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- Apr 27, 2005
Laugh, I wouldn't go that far unless you would be laughing at the same person who is arrogant enough to defy federal law and drs orders by booking an exit seat on a aircraft. It is just one disrespectful action after another.
You keep saying this but I have a different take on it. He's been told by his doctor not to lift anything heavy, apparently. That doesn't necessarily mean he is physically unable to lift anything - it just means he isn't supposed to. He could be willing to gamble that he won't have to open the emergency exit, knowing that if there is a problem and he does have to open it he could further injure his back. If that's a risk he is willing to take I don't see why it's anyone's business but his own.
I think the comment itself was meant to be a joke and I wouldn't feel disrespected if a serious boyfriend said it privately. However, in front of parents? Awkward. Kind of a dumb move. But IMO nothing to really pitch a fit about, they are adults after all.
I agree with this. If the girl was a child I would find it disrespectful, but she's an adult. I think it was foolish to say it in front of the girl's parent but if it was disrespectful to anyone it was disrespectful to the girl, not her parents. As far as the boyfriend knew, it was fine to discuss the girl's cleavage - after all, her mother just discussed it in front of him. (And yes, I know the OP added that she didn't know he was there but he probably thought she did know he was standing there and was fine with him hearing the comment.) I assume it was said as a joke, and maybe was his way of agreeing or at least commenting on what the girl's mother had just said. Foolish, maybe, but not that big of a deal.