bumbershoot
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- Mar 5, 2007
Wonder why you never see invitations that say,
"We already have everything we need that a couple would normally receive as a wedding gift.
We don't expect you to finance our lives by giving us money.
All we want is for you to come celebrate our wedding with us."
I wanted to but my friends and family revolted against it. So I made the registry, told people about it when they asked what we wanted, and always said that we didn't expect gifts at all (said that first and gave more info when it was scoffed at).
But really, having any mention of gifts in the invite shouldn't be done. Even a mention of no gifts.
Heck, if going by strict etiquette, old school stuff, we wouldn't include a stamped envelope for the RSVP because by including that we are stating that we do not think our guests can afford stamps. It's possible even including the RSVP shows that we do not think our guests are savvy enough to know they should RSVP and that we don't think they have the paper or knowledge to do so.
I have some interesting people in my life can you tell? First wedding related purchases I made were the serious etiquette books so I had the "right way" on my side. Since I had no mom to field all the calls and TS not like she knew these things either....