Yay! Then it was worth me posting it!
Welcome aboard, Teri! We are in a similar situation as our daughter turns 3 right after disembarkation. When I took her on the Magic in November we were definitely too young (as we were for WBTA in 2011 at age 15 months) but what Paul said is correct from what I have read multiple places about kiddos on the verge of turning 3. Even so, in November we never used Flounders but did go to the "open" hours of the 3+ kids club where I could accompany her... just never left her then because still so young. This time we might have a chance of leaving her.
The most current info is kept updated on pages 1-2 of this thread so don't stress much about reading all of the pages of this or the part 1 thread --- some of us like myself had booked this cruise on opening day in January 2012 and have been posting since then. Also, we have had people pop on and off the rollcall, or someone make a post with a question and then a lurker PMs them different info that has caused concerns - so do not be surprised if someone sends you a PM versus posting here (and in some cases, take it with a grain of salt because for example
DCL may say a certain night is "casual" but someone may PM that you need to wear dressy clothing - not sure why PMs are flying around versus just making a post public - I have linked official DCL dress code on first post a while back). You can send a PM when you have ten posts on DIS. And don't worry about being a newbie - we all were at some point - hopefully we are all here to help one another out to help make this an even more magical vacation for all families.
I know the helpful advice of other cruisers prior to our first DCL cruise was of tremendous help to me (and we have "cruised around" --- don't cruise specifically on DCL - have two other cruises this year on other lines booked but the posts from others about DCL things helped us out a lot as well as how to manage a longer cruise with children).
If you want me to add you to the hotel post I can do that as well, just let me know (link on first page) but get signed up for events ASAP as deadlines are quickly approaching! All of the events are on page one - so really check out those deadlines.
Again, welcome aboard!! Less than seven weeks to go ---- YAY!!!!