sharoncity
Mom of 2; Wishing I was in WDW; I WILL conquer the
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Hope everything is going well Tasha! If the baby isn't here yet, KEEP THOSE FEET UP!!! 
I had terrible swelling with both of my kids, so you have my sympathy with that!
I'm sending you
and 
, hoping that maybe, just maybe that beautiful baby is on her way!!
TTFN- Sharon
I had terrible swelling with both of my kids, so you have my sympathy with that!I'm sending you
and , hoping that maybe, just maybe that beautiful baby is on her way!!TTFN- Sharon
I'll let you know of any new developments. And thanks to all of you for keeping me in your thoughts and prayers. It means a lot. 
I can't wait to hear your good news! I am so excited for you! Please keep us updated when you can! 
And Scott calmly told him that he will be there for me better if he would respect my wishes and my dad then agreed and said he would. Then he called on Sat. night, Sun. night, and last night. We didn't answer the phone on Sat. night b/c we were sleeping (he tends to call late). He then called my stepdad and started badgering him about whether he had heard from me or not. My stepdad just said no, that as far as he knew I hadn't had the baby yet. My brother IMed me the next day to let me know that my dad had called about it. Then, Sunday he called (once again late at night) and we didn't answer the phone. So, he calls my mom (who doesn't care for my dad) and starts asking her if she had heard from me. She told him that she knew I had said I would call him so that he had no reason to be calling to find anything out. He lies to my mom and says that we said we wanted to call him as soon as I went into labor but that we couldn't call long distance and would she call him as soon as I call her. He is trying to manipulate my mom into calling him before she is born b/c he knows we aren't calling him until afterward. My mom knew how I felt about it though and told him no, that we would call him when we felt like it. He called again last night but this time we purposefully did not answer the phone b/c I was steaming and didn't think I would be calm enough to talk to him. And Scott who is usually so calm it is infuriating has also had enough and didn't think it would be wise if he talked to him either. I did email him this morning and let him know that we said we would call him when she was born and that no one else will be calling him b/c THEY respect our wishes not to. I also let him know that we will not be calling him for several hours now b/c Kylie will be in an incubator for 4 hours after birth (maybe longer) and I will be having nurses check on me quite often for 4 hours as well and don't feel like the company. I told him I didn't appreciate him going against my wishes the way he has and that if he did it again we wouldn't be calling him at all. Ugh, anyway, personally I don't really want him there at all. He is going to stress me more than do anything else but I feel obligated to call him...know what I mean? And this is the thanks I get. I have about had it with him. He also keeps saying he is going to babysit her. This is another issue that is going to cause problems. He did a lot of things in the past that would keep any mother from allowing him to babysit her child. He hit me several times when I was a teenager (and yes, for no reason other than he had had a bad day and I was there) and did worse things than that to some other family members (that is all I will say), he refused to take me to the dr. when I had a severe ear infection and I lost some of my hearing as a result. He also refused to take me to the doctor when I hurt my ankle really bad and it turned black. It never quite healed. This all happened while I lived with him. My brother almost drowned twice while in my dad's care b/c of something careless my dad did. I just thought I would explain some of the reasons why I would never allow my child to be babysat by him. I would never forgive myself if something happened to my child and my dad is the type to watch Kylie drink bleach and do absolutely nothing until it is too late. I just can't take that chance. He has done worse than that too but I will leave that out for now. So anyway, as you can see my dad is a constant source of stress and I think eventually I will finally have to cut him out of my life for good for the well being of my child (and someday hopefully children). I don't know why I haven't already but it looks like it may happen one day. Okay, sorry, this is sooo long, but I had to get that off of my chest. Thanks again for all of your support. Hopefully I will have good news soon. I plan to post every day until she is born so if I skip a day that is probably b/c I finally had her! Bye for now! 
I also pray that your dad will understand and agree to your wishes.
So he's demanding to be there when all you want is to be with your husband during this moment, and YOU are the selfish one? What a dork. I'm sorry hon...that's just so frustrating. I really hope that he does stop bothering you. 
