Well. The saga continues. My brother is still home with O2 and meds. Last night brother and SIL ask my mom to bring them dinner. My mom goes in their freaking house and not one person is wearing a mask. My mom said, well it was only 5 minutes.
So it gets even better. Mom calls me tonight and says that since SIL has to quarantine that she needs to bring my brother to his doctors appointment on Tuesday. I insisted she not do so, I told her that SIL can bring him as she had to stay in the car anyway. She argued they'd both wear masks. Yeah, I'm sure my brother who can barely breathe will wear a mask during a 30 minute car ride. I told her she was 66 years old that she was putting herself at risk. She told me I was talking to her like a 2 year old and that she'd talk to me when I was more rational.
Am I being unreasonable? I know there has been changing guidelines, but I think she's putting herself in undue risk. She isn't a denier or anti-masker and complains about other people not doing the right thing. My number one concern is that she gets sick and the possible ensuing fallout. The hospitals are pretty much maxed our here and you are on your own if your sick. Who would take care of her? I depend on my income alone and have comorbidities and getting sick could be catastrophic. We've already missed Thanksgiving. It seems like Christmas isn't far behind being cancelled in my family. At this point it's been a month since I've seen my mom and now that she's exposed herself again the clock starts again.
I have an older friend who had seven siblings and talked about dealing with her widowed mother. She told me a mom can raise 8 children but 8 kids can't take care of one mother. Ain't that the truth!