Take it as a compliment OP. I'm 31 and get carded and DH is 37 and gets carded. Everyone is just trying to cover their butts these days. Can't say I blame them.
And to a previous poster,
YES sometimes it
IS a compliment. Not
ALL states and not
ALL venues are required to card
everyone. I know it's not like that here in NC because I have worked in a grocery store in NC. It's hit or miss. So if they decide to card me, I take it as a compliment because they weren't sure if I was over 21 or not.