Uncle Remus
Raconteur / can't name 'em Jeb
- Joined
- Jul 23, 2006
I feel like I have whiplash - just a page ago I was getting thumbs up and resounding applause, now I'm clearly on the wrong side of the dis.
In any case, I totally get granting time off for gay couples to go get married if they can't do it where they are stationed. Seems like a logical and compassionate thing to do. But in my mind, it's along the lines of other FMLa type life events like adoptions, illness, paternity time, other family issues. People should absolutely get guaranteed and protected time off. But FMLA is unpaid leave. An I think this should be too (unless, of course, someone wants to use what vacation they already normally have.)
The goal is for all married couples to get the same treatment.
But only gays would be required to take the unpaid leave to travel to equal marriage states because heterosexual couples don't have to travel to equal marriage states, all states marry heterosexuals. Maybe the resolution is all states should respect equal marriage.