Kristie Smith
lovelife
- Joined
- Jul 21, 2017
Do you want her to take more loans just so she can go to Disneyland? Because that's essentially what will happen if you want her to pay her own way.
You paid for sister to go on her trip. I think you need to pay for this one.
Your mistake was in promising to pay a friend's way if you couldn't afford to pay your own child's way.
Have a talk with her and make sure she knows how important it is to get the grades up this year. And tell her this is the last family vacation you are paying for.
No, I don't want her to take out more loans.
We paid for one of her friends to go when she graduated 2 years ago.
Definitely need to have a chat with her about school and considering paying her way although we would probably have to use a credit card to do so. That hasn't stopped me before but we have worked really hard paying them off.