I'm so sorry.
Club level isn't right for everyone, if you feel this bad about it now then maybe you should investigate a change?? Speaking from experience, after my brief stay at AOA two weeks ago I definitely won't be staying there again. Way too many screaming toddlers, jammed packed double buses, and a noisy crowded food court. That is not my idea of a relaxing vacation. I jokingly nicknamed the resort the Art of Toddler Meltdowns!
In two days of going back and forth to the parks I never got a seat once. And coming back from MK the cue line filled 6 double buses before I got on. No thanks.
The main reason we stay club level is so we have the lounge to use as an extension of our room for taking breaks and having snacks. Also we love the cast members and all the personal attention they provide. I don't use them often for ADRs, I do those myself, but they have been great over the years with providing extra help with things like birthdays or setting up special activities or events. I love the deluxe resorts, I want to be pampered and I want to feel like I'm on vacation. Maybe if my kids were still toddlers I wouldn't mind AOA, but I'm soooo far past that point in my life I can't tolerate the stress of it.