usarmywife84
Earning My Ears
- Joined
- Jan 6, 2012
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We actually did the one way ticket route one year and she called two days before she was supposed to have emailed us his ticket and said she couldnt afford it. DSS had to go back to school that week, so we had to cough up the money to send him back. We spent 3 times as much buying 2 one way tickets than we would have spent buying a round trip
But what could we have done? Not send him back? The courts would have taken that as not returning him
I agree with you. I do.
But forget Ex-wife for a second. Can you imagine what it must have been like for that little boy to know his dad was taking his sister to WDW, but not him?
I'm widowed-- my new husband knew that DS and I were a package deal, and that if he couldn't treat DS just the same as any future kids, then he needed to find someone else to have kids with.
I know it's hard. I can't imagine, but I can tell you that childhood me would have been really, really hurt. And I can also tell you that if my husband suggested we take a new baby to WDW but not DS, he wouldn't be my husband anymore.
Thank you also!
If DSS lived closer and we'd not have the huge expense of paying for all his flights it would be much much more feasible to take vacations with him.
We have mentioned this to ex also but she sticks to her story about not having the money for the plane tickets.
I'm really concerned as to what will happen if we decide to have a second child because then we certainly would not be able to afford covering every plane ticket every time does DH just not see SS if his mom won't cooperate?
I agree with you. I do.
But forget Ex-wife for a second. Can you imagine what it must have been like for that little boy to know his dad was taking his sister to WDW, but not him?
I'm widowed-- my new husband knew that DS and I were a package deal, and that if he couldn't treat DS just the same as any future kids, then he needed to find someone else to have kids with.
I know it's hard. I can't imagine, but I can tell you that childhood me would have been really, really hurt. And I can also tell you that if my husband suggested we take a new baby to WDW but not DS, he wouldn't be my husband anymore.