Glad you are getting married, but being a MOM and knowing that the future is hard on young famlies, I would stongly suggest that if you can afford a 20,000+ wedding, you may want to cut back and use some of the money for a down payment on a house.
After all a wedding is one day, but marriage is rest of the time. I told my daughter to do a small wedding and get the house so they had a place to live and have children. She spent 6000 for the wedding and a down payment.
Now is a good time to get the house and start to make the future plans, a disney wedding is great, but if after the wedding all you have is a picture. and a bill not much of a future.
Wishing all goes well.
After all a wedding is one day, but marriage is rest of the time. I told my daughter to do a small wedding and get the house so they had a place to live and have children. She spent 6000 for the wedding and a down payment.
Now is a good time to get the house and start to make the future plans, a disney wedding is great, but if after the wedding all you have is a picture. and a bill not much of a future.
Wishing all goes well.