Thanks for asking -
this is such a heavy burden on our hearts and we're all on pins-and-needles. Firstly, he and his family are being held in constant prayer by countless people all over the world and that is sustaining them in amazing ways.
I'm not sure how much you know about the Canadian medical system, but due to the way it works, even the most dire cases face waits for diagnostic procedures and treatments that you might find mind-bending. After his initial diagnosis he needed an MRI to determine the exact progression and from the time of my first post, it's taken until yesterday to get the results of that. His tumor is in the "tail" of the pancreas, which is rarer and produces far fewer symptoms that other kinds. The cancer has metastasized throughout his entire liver (
innumerable is the word they used to describe the tumors there) and one lung. There are no viable treatment options other than comfort measures, which blessedly, are abundantly available through our superb network of palliative care facilities. Liver failure is imminent - like hold your breath, any second now - imminent, and once that kicks in his life-expectancy is days, or weeks at most. At this time he is still basically asymptomatic, which is a marvel and a surprise to the doctors.
While waiting for oncological care they have been consulting complementary medicine practitioners, something that's readily available here on a pay-as-you-go basis. I know very little about it (as do most of us in North America) but there are apparently many cancer-care protocols widely practiced in Europe that hold some promise. He has been accepted into a treatment program at (what is apparently) a prestigious clinic in Vienna, if they can make it there and come up with the funds. It's a tough, tough decision for them and honestly, I don't know what I'd do if it were me.
In the meantime, we're all rallied around providing whatever practical help we can, trying to figure out how to "be" with him - how to act, what to say, how to keep focus on the fact that he's not dead yet, even though we all began grieving 2 weeks ago. Again, thanks for asking - this may be more of an update than you were interested in, but processing it like this has been cathartic.