What happens if you don't have a husband anymore? Mine passed away several years ago and now I am left to my own devices!!! YIKES!!!! My best friend is my enabeler!!! When we go shopping together, watch out, you never know what could happen! It's awful, we talk each other into buying things!!! We talk each other into swaps! We talk each other into everything! We just get into too much trouble together!!! LOL!!! It is fun though....