Thank you everyone for your prayers, they're still needed.
Ashley is still in a coma and has been breathing on her own for over 24 hrs. In the last day, the Dr's have removed her ICP (IntraCranial Pressure)moniter. Which means her brain swelling has abated. We did a happy dance for her!
With those accomplishment she's mostly out of the woods. The Dr.s keep on reminding us that this will be a very long road to recovery. Things that I really don't want to hear. I understand her risk for permanent disability and don't care. I'll take Ashley any way I can. Until she wakes up though, we won't know the extent of damages.
I'll be staying with her for the next week and have high hopes that she'll wake up and let us know what's going on. Being 3 hours away from her, waiting to see her again is so hard. Unfortunately, I have to work enough to maintain the insurance. Each day I'm away seems like a life time.
Please keep praying for her. Each day Ashley makes another baby step towards recovery. I see or hear about little miracles every day in her.
Ashley will start PT, OT, Speech therapy (not sure what they can do while she's still unresponsive?) and have swallow test done today. So another exhausting day for her. The experts say that they need to be aggressive with her right now. It's so hard to watch but we know she needs to wake up soon.
I'm having a hard time balancing life right now. I have a younger child (16) that's being neglected right now, along with laundry, cooking, work, taking care of life I guess. DD16 can cook her own dinner, but I only see her about an hour a day if that. That balance will come with time. We're all working on scheduling and new routines.