I would HIGHLY recommend Aulani. I think the issue people are making is comparing the cost of Aulani to some non-Disney vacation. Of course Aulani will price out higher in that situation…it is Hawaii!! I think the better comparison is Aulani to other similar Hawaiian resorts.
My oldest daughter’s dream was to visit Hawaii. When we bought into
DVC, it didn’t even dawn on us that we could use those points in Hawaii. For her senior graduation trip, we were looking into doing a 10 day Hawaiian vacation. Then my wife said “wait, we are DVC members…we can go to Aulani!”. We ended up staying at Aulani for a week and a full Hilton resort for 4 days. Aulani was absolutely gorgeous and made it so we could actually afford the Hawaiian trip. Having $0 for room fees on the bill at check out was pretty sweet. So, yes, going to Hawaii is expensive…but using your DVC points at Aulani makes it a LOT less expensive! IMO, that’s the comparison to consider.