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~ Been DS legal guardian for 22 years with no court reporting. Varies by jurisdiction.
~ Am not a Conservator because he can't really have assets so not worth the work, per the Court.
~ DH retired this year which sent all his benefits in an upheaval needing a lawyer to help.
~ During process updated his Special Needs Trust ...
~ Lawyer said to open ABLE account for him to save some as his benefits changed from SSI to SS-DAC based on DH income.
I understand the benefits of the ABLE but I don't like the CONS, which is if he is able to save some money for his future and there is an unexpected death ... all that money saved is gone to the government. Even though his family has provided much of his care and needs, they are cut out. I will never allow this account to accumulate much and will do that by using it and not his SNT for his needs. There very well will come a time he has to move out of our home and I want the SNT to be there is assist his siblings on getting him the best care.
Unfortunately in your situation I would not do an ABLE for him. By natural order if he isn't capable of managing his funds his father will be the one. He would have complete access to the account and the funds. You would be just handing him the money. If I were you I would set up the SNT which could be left completely in your control or you could pass it on to one of the trustee companies that do this full time. We have one of those companies lined up in DS trust in case we are both gone and siblings want someone else to do that process. They would only allow funds to be used under the terms of the trust, which should protect any benefits he may be receiving. At his passing you decide where that money goes left in the trust. For my DS his trust is called the "My Name" Supplemental Needs Trust for the Benefit of "Son's Name". We are the trustees and we have the final say on how any funds are to be used within context of law. At DS passing the funds will be split between his living siblings, even if we are still alive.
I feel like your best way to help besides the SNT is to find out if he is qualified and receiving his benefits he is due. Does he go to a day program? If so how is that paid? Does he have a day program waiver? If not maybe help them apply for the waiver as there is likely a wait list? Has he applied for SSI and Medicaid? That would give him health insurance. Is there a need for him to possibly move to a group home or other living arrangement? That would be another application and wait list. Even if he's not ready now, being on the wait list is a good idea in case need comes up later. Sounds like he mostly needs an advocate to help them through the processes, and then some savings for later that is protected against seizure.
NOTE: Since DH retirement DS only has Medicaid for insurance. He will not qualify for dual eligibility ... having Medicaid & Medicare working together ... for two years. At least presently nephew should be able to stay on Dad's health insurance (if he has it) though he might have to provide documentation.