Congrats Karin - getting that affirmation and finally knowing makes a huge difference. We're the same age (1984) - I got mine at age 32, but had suspected for quite a few years before that. I think a lot of us who are female/grew up in the 80s/90s got missed as kids. It's correct it doesn't solve all of the problems, but knowing helps me to prevent some of them from happening. The last 8 years have been a lot less rocky than the teens/twenties were.I'm just curious. As you shared in your original post that he has been getting approved for DAS for the last 13 years, Disney never asked for a diagnosis as they can't in the US. Didn't you go through this before where you did the talking and explained his needs, and he was there to take his picture. Or was your last visit a long time ago?
The rules recently changed, but not the procedure.
For what it is worth, I got my official diagnosis for ASD today (40F), and I really wish that I knew in my teenage years and my twenties what I know now. It would't have solved all my problems, but I could have handled things differently and understood things better, understood myself better. You say your kid is smart, he might already know.
To Nursejackie - I saw one of the replies you got before it got deleted - it made my blood boil and I had to step away to keep from responding. A lot of people don't understand ASD, especially those of us who from the outside can appear to be functioning well. I hope the DAS discussion goes well, and your upcoming trip it's lots of fun.