This will be interesting to me because we just got an email from the coaches wife today stating that she wants to collect $7 from each kid to buy a gift for her husband. My husband has been coaching for a long time, and I have never asked for money for a gift for him. If you want to buy him a gift feel free, but I won't ask.
I understand that coaches give of their time etc.....but I don't like feeling pressured to give. And the coaches wife is VERY pushy.
I have coached several sports in the Middle School for over 10 years.... Some years/seasons I was given things, some years/seasons I received nothings. I do not expect anything from the kids. I do it becasue I love sports, kids and all that fun stuff. However, of the things I have received, I liked the GCs and Team sweat shirts the most. Here are other things I have received over the years: Team pictures, Team sweatshirts, plants Softball season), gift certificates, Life is Good bag, Life is Good coffe mug, Cards made and/or signed from the kids, One year when I was preggo - I was given a baby book and GC for the baby.
Some teams have more than one coach. Its important not to leave anyone out. A head coach may receive more or somethinga little bigger than an assitant coach or whatever the case may be... In evitibly - its the thought that counts....
On the flip side of the flip side: Having children of my own who participate in sports, I always get things for their coaches. Its a hard job and sometimes (often times) a volunteer position. I feel its important to show the coach apprectation for their time and hard work. We have contributed anywhere from $3 to $5 for a group GC fro the team, We have done a $25 ourselves, a bag of gourmet cookies from the local bakery, and also pitched in toward a team sweatshirt and thank you card. Its all a matter is what is affordable and works for you and your team. If nothing else, a hand written card form the parents and/or child is always special. Just my 2 cents....![]()
I'm a swim coach; every year one ofd the moms secretly goes around and gets money from the team. She then puts it on a gift card for us or if she has heard us talking about something we have been wanting to buy she buys it.
Another idea would be a gas card.
Where do you coach? I'm in Northern VA and swim for Curl - West.
For the original topic, I'm reading. I'm the team manager for my son's soccer team. This is my first year managing. I'm asking for $10 from each parent and am planning on getting a gift card but I'm reading this for suggestions.
This is just a suggestion, but given today's economy I wouldn't ask for a set dollar amount. Some people may be on such a tight budget that they just don't have it. I would let everyone know I'm collecting and ask that they contribute whatever they feel is appropriate. JMO
As I mentioned in a previous post my son plays rec basketball. Its put on by our town's Parks and Recreation department and is free to all residents. Everyone who signs up is put on a team and plays. Some of these children come from the poorest parts of our community and its the only way they can play organized sports. I doubt if their parent/guardian would be able to come up with an extra $10.
Where do you coach? I'm in Northern VA and swim for Curl - West.QUOTE]
It`s a summer team in Loudoun County
I have a question for you. I collected for the coaches gifts for baseball for one of my sons. We had three official coaches. The head coach's middle son helped with the team but was never listed as a coach. I bought cards for the kids to sign and his brother said "oh is this one for <his brother's name>?" I didn't know what to say/do. You said not to leave anyone out but I went by the roster and info supplied.
As for the gifts, our coaches lately have been the all star coaches. We tend to gift them gift cards for sporting goods store, ice cream and movies. Things we think they can do while traveling with the ball team. I have never asked the wives of the coaches for contributions toward the gift but I've always had the kids sign, all the kids.
I like that idea of a scrapbook, I'll keep that in mind for next year. I wish I would have done something like that this year for the youngest son's team. He moved up a level and some of these boys he'll never get to play with again and he was particularly close with one coach. He was a great coach, one of those positive ones, very encouraging.