Birthday Present Question

[tinkerbellandpeterpan]

So we always send our nephew (about to be 5) birthday presents from his amazon wishlist. And it really bothers me his mom gives him the presents whenever they arrive instead of waiting for his birthday, I send them early to make sure they get there on time. Am I weirdo for wanting his aunt and uncle to give him presents on his birthday and not the week before? To be clear, I haven't really said anything because it's not worth ruining a good relationship but I dont like it, My feelings about this might not be valid so I'm asking how everyone else would feel.

 

[kdonnel]

When my kids were young, my wife and I learned quickly that we could not control what happened with the kids when they were at their grandparents. A different set of rules at their house was the penalty for us getting time to ourselves.

I think that sentiment applies in your situation. You can't control or dictat what happens in someone else's home.

If you really want the presents to be given on the birthday have them sent to your home from Amazon and then pay for overnight FedEX or UPS to ensure delivery on the birthday.

 

[luvthatduke]

I have a friend who I think doesn't like it that we DO wait until DS's birthday
to give him any gifts or cards from family/friends.
Interesting...

I will assume that you send the gift(s) from your address?
If so, maybe next year wrap it in the giftwrap that says "No peeking" or similar.
Or use something like this (below) as a hint?
Others will likely disagree w/me but if you're the one
sending the gift I think you should at least be allowed to make your request.
However, be prepared to graciously accept a negative response.
I do understand walking on eggshells around family .