Hi!
I just got done with a big part of a huge work project, and I'm celebrating by taking the night off and just doing fun things.
So, in that spirit, I thought I'd come see about everyone here.
Things are all right with me. Not great, but not too bad either.
My mom is getting by. She was in the hospital for about 10 days in late Jan/early Feb with pressure sores and some new cancer in her shoulder. She refused to go to rehab afterwards and insisted on coming home, which was just awful. She couldn't really take care of herself, so her roommate and I were unceremoniously thrust into the role of full-time caregivers. It was pretty awful for a few weeks, and if we ever find ourselves in that situation again I will do everything in my power to steer her into rehab.
The worst seems to be over now--she's gained a lot of her independence back, which lightens the load on me a bit. She's still not driving, but hopefully that will come soon. She's getting more used to the idea that her current living situation isn't going to work indefinitely, and even asked to go look at assisted living places. I don't think she's going to make a move soon unless she has to, but at least the groundwork is laid.
I'm coping. Some days are better than others.
DH took a new job in January, and this one is working out really well, with the tiny exception of him traveling 3-5 days every week. In all honestly, though, it's not as bad as I thought it was going to be. I kind of like having my weeknights to myself. The pace of life is much more hectic, but he really likes his work and that makes a big difference for us.
DH actually has a convention at WDW in mid-April and I'm going to tag along on that. I cannot wait--I'm going to have a whole week off! No mom, no work, no household responsibitilies. Just relaxation. I'm so excited!
A couple of weeks after that we're still tentatively planning to take Mom to WDW. So far things are looking good, so as long as our luck holds I think we'll be able to make it. Here's hoping!
Health and weight-wise, things are largely the same--not worse, and not really better. I'm staring down the barrel of 30 this fall, and I need to get my can in gear. I don't want to end up like my mom.
I hope everyone here is happy and healthy. Sending lots of love and
to everyone!