What kind of special treatment are you looking for? It seems to me that the CMs try to make EVERYONE's visit to WDW special.
I always wonder WHAT special things people are expecting or think they deserve when they go to WDW.
Just curious, no offense meant. I ask this as a general question because I have read of many people on other threads and sites that expect special treatment or freebies. NOT you, OP. Just in general. It is a good topic to discuss. What warrants special treatment by Disney? Good question!!!
I never thought my first visit there was deserving of *extra special* treatment by anyone. Boy, I was happy just to be there!!! That place made me feel special!
When we celebrated hubby's birthday, we ordered and paid for amenities from the Disney Florist to have them in the room. The waiters at various restaurants would bring a cupcake with a candle for the birthday, but we did not expect it.
If you plan for a special occasion and pay for the special amenities, that is one thing, but to expect or wonder what you will get for just being there your first time, or your anniversary other than a "Happy Anniversary" or "Welcome, we are so glad to have you here on your first visit" is kinda like expecting freebies where none are required.
There are those who expect the CMs to give them something EVERY day of their trip when they wear their button! I have heard of people wearing a birthday button the whole of a week's trip and milking it for all they could get. I wore my birthday button ON MY BIRTHDAY and that was it!
All the CMs will acknowledge your special occasion if you have a button on. The button itself is a great souvenir from your trip! I love them.
I have a collection of them, because we go to DL every year on my birthday (last year was lucky enough to have a friend take us to lunch at Club 33, THAT was a special treat, never to be taken for granted!!!!)
So if you get the occasional comments from CMs and some even give you an open fast pass, maybe just because they want to make a magic moment for you, be happy and enjoy the trip! The first time there is magical!
Interesting question though!
ariel