She could be both.Is the wife being creepy by hiring a PI? Or is she just being a WIFE?
If there is more to this divorce taking a long time than he is telling the OP.....and there very likely is..... then there might be several legitimate reasons for the wife to hire a PI. It's not as if the wife is posting here and we can hear her side of events. How do any of us, including the OP, know WHAT he is telling his wife?IMHO, hiring a PI, unless it is for one's own protection and well being, is creepy.
Being a wife has absolutely nothing, at all, to do with that equation.
It will forever remain a mystery, I guess.Why does she have his credit card statement?
I agree with PP - a PI would also be worthwhile, and not creepy, if she is using the PI to garner information that can be used in determination of custody and/or alimony.IMHO, hiring a PI, unless it is for one's own protection and well being, is creepy.
Being a wife has absolutely nothing, at all, to do with that equation.