ssommerville
Mouseketeer
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- Jul 10, 2010
Cutting in line at the baby changing area- this frustrates me so much
Apologies for the (brief I promise!) rant!
This was, without a doubt, the most annoying/upsetting thing I've experienced.
We were in the world last week, our last day in MK - we'd just checked out that morning and finished at the TT dessert party.
We're on the metro back to the Ticket and Transportation Centre, our compartment was pretty packed - our bench was full, the bench opposite was full, and there were maybe 6 people standing.
So, about half way to TTC, all hell breaks lose in our compartment. A child on the opposite bench had been repeatedly kicking the lady standing up - and I don't mean gently, I mean slamming his feet into the backs of her legs. She'd asked him to please stop, very very politely, a couple of times and he'd continued. She then asked his mother to please stop him - her response? "Well if you didn't look at him maybe he wouldn't kick you"!!!!
The woman, very calmly, just requested that the boy please apologise - one of the two boys, the one who hadn't kicked her, spat out "sorry" - the actual kicker, said nothing, just smirked. All the while, he was STILL kicking the woman, just gently knocking against her now. His mother said NOTHING. She literally turned her head and ignored the situation. The boy then kicked the woman, hard enough for us all to hear her gasp in the now silent compartment, burst into tears and squeezed through the other people over to our side.
We pull in, and the woman is still crying. The mother of the kicker is having a laugh about how silly she is - we get up behind this woman, waiting to get out and the mother tries to physically move us out of the way to get behind the woman her child had just been abusing. I was, at this point, livid!
I've never told anyone off at Disney, I've never had a cross word to say... or even thought of admonishing anyone. I'm not aggressive or confrontational... however our girls had just watched this entire thing, completely shocked. I wasn't going to let them think it's okay to sit by and watch someone abuse an innocent person and say nothing. So, I turned around and said "I'm sorry, but you really should have apologised. That wasn't right".
Oh my gosh! The names I was called! Screamed, in front of her children. She even tried to grab by 16 year old niece when we walked away.
I know speaking up will be taken as being confrontational - but I don't care. It was an awful thing to watch. I've never been so horrified!
The people in front of me that put kids on shoulders as parades or fireworks start. Since I'm short now I can't see a thing
Holstar said:Apologies for the (brief I promise!) rant!
This was, without a doubt, the most annoying/upsetting thing I've experienced.
We were in the world last week, our last day in MK - we'd just checked out that morning and finished at the TT dessert party.
We're on the metro back to the Ticket and Transportation Centre, our compartment was pretty packed - our bench was full, the bench opposite was full, and there were maybe 6 people standing.
So, about half way to TTC, all hell breaks lose in our compartment. A child on the opposite bench had been repeatedly kicking the lady standing up - and I don't mean gently, I mean slamming his feet into the backs of her legs. She'd asked him to please stop, very very politely, a couple of times and he'd continued. She then asked his mother to please stop him - her response? "Well if you didn't look at him maybe he wouldn't kick you"!!!!
The woman, very calmly, just requested that the boy please apologise - one of the two boys, the one who hadn't kicked her, spat out "sorry" - the actual kicker, said nothing, just smirked. All the while, he was STILL kicking the woman, just gently knocking against her now. His mother said NOTHING. She literally turned her head and ignored the situation. The boy then kicked the woman, hard enough for us all to hear her gasp in the now silent compartment, burst into tears and squeezed through the other people over to our side.
We pull in, and the woman is still crying. The mother of the kicker is having a laugh about how silly she is - we get up behind this woman, waiting to get out and the mother tries to physically move us out of the way to get behind the woman her child had just been abusing. I was, at this point, livid!
I've never told anyone off at Disney, I've never had a cross word to say... or even thought of admonishing anyone. I'm not aggressive or confrontational... however our girls had just watched this entire thing, completely shocked. I wasn't going to let them think it's okay to sit by and watch someone abuse an innocent person and say nothing. So, I turned around and said "I'm sorry, but you really should have apologised. That wasn't right".
Oh my gosh! The names I was called! Screamed, in front of her children. She even tried to grab by 16 year old niece when we walked away.
I know speaking up will be taken as being confrontational - but I don't care. It was an awful thing to watch. I've never been so horrified!
Amanda Esmeralda said:I am so horrified by the things parents let their kids get away with. I had a kid kicking my back on a plane once. I tried to just deal but finally I turned around and said "You know that's not polite." His mom was like, "Oh he is just being a boy." Um, no. Sorry. If you want to let your kid be a holy terror at home, that's your problem. When it becomes my problem, it will become your kid's problem because I won't tolerate disrespect and especially physical force.
People who no matter how many times the attendants SCREAM the directions, hold up the parking tram because they put their kids on the outside.
People with unnecessarily huge strollers. I know I don't have kids blah blah blah but every time I see someone approaching my bus/tram/whatever with a monster-truck stroller my heart sinks as I roll my eyes.
My pet peeve is the lack of chivalry on the busses. It burns my butt when grown men or young teens don't offer their seat to our elderly or even the little ones. Making a mother stand on a moving bus while holding a one year old so some overfed middle aged man or self centered teen can sit drives me nuts.get off your butt.