i truly belive people can change their ways if they can recognize some of their most fatal flaws. I can relate greatly to this. I now know that life is to short to treat people the way i use to and its no use to stay angry and someone and hold a grudge against them until the end of time. And i absolutely hate how people are so judgemental these days. It kills me that people know nothing about the other person that they dont like and give them a label i wouldnt want to have a label it just makes you think and wonder if others think of you this way or label you something that your not or think your not