Hi Folks...
I swear that what I am going to type is true.
I swear.
My Mom's health has been declining for a while now and it seemed to be getting much worse last Friday.
For most of the weekend, she was non-responsive.
Her DR. suggested that we speak with the Hospice DR, who is good at handling these things.
After speaking with him yesterday, he suggested that my Mom would not make it through the night. After conferring with everyone else (and it seems like I talked to everyone), the decision was made to unhook all of the IVs and other things and to let my my Mom pass peacefully.
We left the hospital and stated making arrangements.
I went to bed last night with every phone in the house in the bed with me. I didnt want to miss a call.
At 8:30 this morning, my sister-in-law calls and says "you are NOT going to believe this......your Mom is sitting up in bed and talking to me and asking where everyone is."
Shortly there after...my brother calls and says "this is incredible. Mom is better. Her blood pressure is almost normal. Her vitals are good and Hospice doesnt think she actually needs Hospice.
Upon arrival at the hospital, I find my Mom awake, talking, smiling.....while she is not the picture of health, she is isnt the non-responsive person that I began making arrangements for last night.
While my Mom has huge, life threatening health issues, her DRs have suggested that we hook the IVs and drugs back up and see where this goes.
We have been warned that that we should not take this as a recovery. There are still huge hurdles to overcome and that just as this changed over night, it could change back just as quickly.
What ever happens, I feel as if I have been given an enormous gift today.
I got to spend a day with my Mom and to tell her how much she means to me and for that I feel like I have been blessed. Last night I was sure that that would never happen again.
Yesterday and today have been a roller coaster of emotions. I do not know what tomorrow will bring or where we will stand.
All I know is that no one knows what tomorrow will bring.
Tell the people that you love that you love them.
Thank you for all of the encouragement and support and for keeping my family in your thoughts and prayers.
Kevin, I am so happy to hear this.
It's also brought some clarity to my own situation. My dad, who is only 54 years old, was diagnosed out of the blue on Friday with stage 4 stomach cancer, which has metastasized to his liver. To say we are devastated is the understatement of the century. He was the picture of health, complained of a stomach ache, went to the doctor, and now we are faced with making decisions we never wanted to make. We are heartbroken.
Your message today has filled me with hope - not that we will get a miraculous recovery, though we would love it if did, but that we still have time, and that we still have memories to make and things to say to each other. I pray that I am able to handle the coming months with even a portion of the grace that you have shown in facing this situation with your mom.
My thoughts and prayers are with you - and we'd appreciate any you could send our way too.