This is such a great place for comfort and support. I lost my DH of 45 years on Sept. 29. He passed suddenly at home, no known health issues. I couldn't wake him up in the morning. So horrific! He was only 67.
My 2 sons have been wonderful but I am so lost and lonely without DH. I am staying with my older DS and family for now. I don't know if I can go back to living in the house. We have been to the house getting pictures and clothes etc but I just keep thinking of him and crying. DS says I can stay as long as I want. I am helping out so I am not a burden but it is not my home with my DH. We are going to clean out the house as DH was a pack rat and then see what the best solution is for me and the kids.
We had a wonderful life celebration with slide show, pictures, music, and the boys talked about their Dad. DH was a wonderful Husband, Dad, and Grandpa/Papa.
We always traveled and were supposed to do our annual foliage trip to NH next week. We both loved this trip as it was relaxing and we had alot of fun. Plus we had a Disney trip planned for Nov which we were both looking forward to. We always had such a great time together and I grieve that we won't have that closeness and fun any more. We were supposed to grow old together.
Now I have the daunting task of calls and appointments, changing health care, dealing with his work benefits. I am taking time off from work to deal with it all but it is so stressful and anxiety provoking. I miss him so much.
My 2 sons have been wonderful but I am so lost and lonely without DH. I am staying with my older DS and family for now. I don't know if I can go back to living in the house. We have been to the house getting pictures and clothes etc but I just keep thinking of him and crying. DS says I can stay as long as I want. I am helping out so I am not a burden but it is not my home with my DH. We are going to clean out the house as DH was a pack rat and then see what the best solution is for me and the kids.
We had a wonderful life celebration with slide show, pictures, music, and the boys talked about their Dad. DH was a wonderful Husband, Dad, and Grandpa/Papa.
We always traveled and were supposed to do our annual foliage trip to NH next week. We both loved this trip as it was relaxing and we had alot of fun. Plus we had a Disney trip planned for Nov which we were both looking forward to. We always had such a great time together and I grieve that we won't have that closeness and fun any more. We were supposed to grow old together.
Now I have the daunting task of calls and appointments, changing health care, dealing with his work benefits. I am taking time off from work to deal with it all but it is so stressful and anxiety provoking. I miss him so much.