OP -- You're kidding yourself and showing those of us on this thread pretty dramatically how you could have gotten yourself into such a mess.
"Eating in more than not" at a WDW resort in no way equals the kind of food budget you should have every single day until you get yourself out of this mess. You don't need $50 dinners -- you need $50 weekly grocery budgets. If your friends can afford to buy plane tickets for every member of your family, are they really the kind of people who will enjoy eating what your family should be eating at a resort at Christmas time?
I'm sorry to say this, but either your DH is feeding you a line or you're feeding us one about how you could miss one house payment and have to pay $1,000 a month extra.
You need to cancel the trip and get yourself to a nonprofit financial counselor ASAP.
"Eating in more than not" at a WDW resort in no way equals the kind of food budget you should have every single day until you get yourself out of this mess. You don't need $50 dinners -- you need $50 weekly grocery budgets. If your friends can afford to buy plane tickets for every member of your family, are they really the kind of people who will enjoy eating what your family should be eating at a resort at Christmas time?
I'm sorry to say this, but either your DH is feeding you a line or you're feeding us one about how you could miss one house payment and have to pay $1,000 a month extra.
You need to cancel the trip and get yourself to a nonprofit financial counselor ASAP.