We ended up booking directly with disney for security. If we can get it in march we will swap to dvc to save money. Peace at mind is best though. Thank you all so much for the help!
After watching the tours of Poly and BLT, it's not even close for me. I'd much rather be at Poly. The commute over to Epcot won't take long from there either.
We chose to spend our honeymoon at Animal Kingdom Lodge. It isn't in the center of anything, but it was quieter and more relaxing. The animals and fire pit at night were romantic, and we really enjoy all the restaurants there.