Mrs. Ciz
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Feb 17, 2011
DH is having hip replacement surgery in a couple of weeks. He's heard that they get you up and walking very quickly, so in his mind, recovery is super quick. He is otherwise healthy, works out regularly and is only 50 years old. High school and college football did a number on both his hips. His plan is to get the worst one replaced and then 3-4 months later do the 2nd one.
I have a few questions about my roll as his caregiver and what to realistically expect for his recovery. I'm a school teacher and have my summers off, so I'll have time to help him heal. But my boss, who totally forgot about DH's surgery, has asked me to attend a 2 day meeting in his absence (it's local, so no overnight) 6 days after DH's surgery. I am worried about leaving DH alone all day just 6 days after hip replacement surgery. I'm thinking he will still need my help with dressing, bathing, maybe transitioning from standing/sitting/standing, and I'll need to drive him to his follow up appointments and PT. I'm thinking I need tell my boss to find someone else to fill in for him. Is my thinking correct?
DH's dad has invited us to spend a couple of days with them at their beach rental house 13 days after DH's surgery. Normally I'd be all over this invitation. I love the beach. But I think it might be a little too much too soon. It's a 4 hours drive; the beach house has 3 stories; and I don't know if DH would even be able to walk on the sand. He wouldn't be able to get in the ocean due to the risk of being knocked over by a wave, not sure when stitches come out either. DH doesn't want to disappoint his dad, but I think he's crazy to even consider it. Then again, maybe I'm the crazy one, and the surgery/recovery is not as bad as I am expecting.
How quickly did your recovery (or your loved one's recovery) progress?
I have a few questions about my roll as his caregiver and what to realistically expect for his recovery. I'm a school teacher and have my summers off, so I'll have time to help him heal. But my boss, who totally forgot about DH's surgery, has asked me to attend a 2 day meeting in his absence (it's local, so no overnight) 6 days after DH's surgery. I am worried about leaving DH alone all day just 6 days after hip replacement surgery. I'm thinking he will still need my help with dressing, bathing, maybe transitioning from standing/sitting/standing, and I'll need to drive him to his follow up appointments and PT. I'm thinking I need tell my boss to find someone else to fill in for him. Is my thinking correct?
DH's dad has invited us to spend a couple of days with them at their beach rental house 13 days after DH's surgery. Normally I'd be all over this invitation. I love the beach. But I think it might be a little too much too soon. It's a 4 hours drive; the beach house has 3 stories; and I don't know if DH would even be able to walk on the sand. He wouldn't be able to get in the ocean due to the risk of being knocked over by a wave, not sure when stitches come out either. DH doesn't want to disappoint his dad, but I think he's crazy to even consider it. Then again, maybe I'm the crazy one, and the surgery/recovery is not as bad as I am expecting.
How quickly did your recovery (or your loved one's recovery) progress?