My
and I were very saddened to read about your sudden loss.
We talked about how we would handle your question. Our advice is to go forward with the trip. It will help remind your daughters that despite losing someone they love very much, that the best way to honor his memory is to continue living.
Before I met my
she had planned to take her two DD's to WDW while visiting her mother in FL. Unfortunately, right before the trip, her mother passed away unexpectedly. Even though they were experiencing a great loss, my
decided to take her DD's to WDW without their grandmother present. She said it was a great opportunity for her family to begin healing.
Last year, my father past away just a few months before my parents 50th anniversary. At the time of his death, we had a trip planned to celebrate their 50th anniversary at Hilton Head. Outside of WDW, HH was one of my Dad's favorite vacation spots for golfing. After he died, my Mom said we should continue with the trip. It turned out to be a very special trip, full of memories that we will carry for the rest of our lives. And we could truly feel my Dad's presence during that trip.
In the end, we all deal with our grief differently. As you prepare for the week ahead, keep your daughters close. Together you will find the strength to decide how to being healing as a family and how to celebrate you DD's 6th birthday.