Hi Nat8199! You'll love your first cruise! My son is 8 and cruising is one of our fave family trips. There's lots to keep kids happy on board. There are kids' only activities scheduled in the Oceaneer Lab/Club like character visits, cooking, games, etc,. and these run throughout the day. You'll get a Navigator listing all ship events daily, or use the app
https://disneycruise.disney.go.com/faq/navigator-app/about-the-app/. Whatever you get up to really depends on your kids' interests, and whether or not they are early/late kids. Movies run throughout the day in the cinema, there's two showings of the big productions that alternate with the dining seatings (of 5:45pm and 8-ish.. we always use the first one so I'm not sure if it's 7:45 or 8:15 for second seating). Kids Club is open until 10pm, and they have a "Dine & Play" option where the counsellors come and pick your kids up from the dining room to go to the club (your kids' meals are "expedited" if you tell your server) so the adults can do the rest of the meal without kids. Dinner times are pre-booked but if you don't get what you want, go to the dining room on Deck 3 - Royal Court - and ask them to change for you. My husband and I always schedule at least one spa session and send out kiddo to the Kids' club. On our last trip we bought daily access to the Rainforest room in the Senses Spa (like DIY spa - heaven), but found that we rushed around a bit too much each to get it done and make it worth the value, especially if our son wasn't in the child care program and needed to be with one of us. There are several places to relax for adults - make sure you coordinate schedules so you get time off too! We also liked activities such as towel folding, racing paper airplanes, and the Midship Detective Agency as a family. Characters show up in different costumes than in the parks, and in different outfits on the ship. You can plan who you're going to see using the Navigator. And the wait times are so much more manageable compared to the parks. There's also a Princess photo opportunity for an extra fee that is really popular. If you have kids that like to hang out on deck, there's movies on the funnel vision, and food & beverages available on the pool deck level. However, we found that on every cruise we've been on, there's been pool "foulings" repeatedly - at least daily - which is a risk for tummy bugs. Oh, and one thing I didn't realize until after our first cruise, the kids' club also has a supervised area on
Castaway Cay if you want to take off and enjoy the adult areas of the island. We missed out on a Star Wars sailing by 2 weeks (grrrr) but I have a friend who did it. So if you want specific Star Wars info, I can source that out for you! Have a fantastic time!!