We absolutely LOVED the deluxe dining plan !!
We aren't 3 meal a day people either, but we chose this plan for a few reasons.
1. we wanted to do Cinderella's Castle for a breakfast
and a dinner. (so that was 2 TS each meal alone)
2. We knew we wanted to do a character breakfast each morning... so if we only did the regular dining plan, we would have used up our TS for that day... the Deluxe gave us more flexibility.
3. We knew we wanted to try Flying fish and Narcoosee's ( again, 2 TS each)
4. You got 2 snack credits per day. Which came in handy when we wanted a light snack on the days we did a breakfast and dinner only.
5. snack credits came in handy with a DH that constantly must have a diet coke or water at all times. (I know, not the best use of the snack credits, but we didn't have to keep pulling cash out each time we got a drink)
6. It was a great way to start the day with a sit down meal, and a nice way to end the day with a sit down. On every other day, we did use a TS for a light lunch...which I have to say was REALLY nice to sit down in air conditioning and take a break and just relax for a little while.
The way we looked at is was this way... for us, it was a convenience and made our trip "all inclusive" so we didn't have to pay out of pocket for everything. So even if we broke even, we would have been just fine. As it worked out, we actually saved $ 668 by choosing the deluxe plan (this is after I have included what we spent on tips). We made smart choices at meals, didn't always eat dessert....sometimes shared appetizers...we didn't feel compelled to order everything that was included with our meal. For us, it worked. The one thing I have to be more aware of next time is the snack credits.... we had 6 left on our last day and I used them all for the Mickey rice krispy treats... I probably could have used them better.
I think if you want to try some signatures or CRT or the character meals, this is definitely the way to go. We are doing this again on our next trip.