Awww, I love the story about you and Andy! I'm one of those people who does often think that some people get engaged really young (I went to school with girls who were just DYING to get a boyfriend and then DYING to get married and then DYING to have a baby so it's like they just want the next step NOW), but you and Andy are NOT one of them. I know I don't know you guys personally, but from your trip reports, you guys are just PERFECT together! You both compromise with each other and have a wonderful give and take. I do have to say that you and I are both lucky to have guys that are pretty easygoing though! Haha, I don't know how Howard deals with me when I get grouchy (usually when I'm hungry, haha).
I know a lot of people say that the first year of marriage is really hard, and I believe that because it's a lot of adjustment. But when others hear that we only have a studio apartment, they say, "Oh man, you're going to be in each other's hair and get annoyed! At least you have the bathroom door to slam!" I was always wondering, um, is that really how it's going to be because I can't imagine it. We recently talked to another young couple at church who is expecting their first baby soon (after losing their first baby after a few months of being pregnant). They helped us by answering wedding questions when we were doing all the preparations. I explained what people have been saying to us, and the husband said, "No, we're still very happy together" and they've been married for a few years already! It calmed me down because I was getting anxious thinking that we were going to have major fights or something coming up soon! I just imagine you and Andy to be the same way! Sure, there will be grouchy moments (you know, when you stay up really late for a YOLO trip and are starving, haha), but it's never anything major. You guys have been through difficult times together; what's a little grouchiness from hunger?
It does stink that you guys are going to be apart for a while though, but if there's ever a time for you try out this Disney stuff, it's now! Howard went to Vancouver during one of the summers we were together to work for his uncle. It was difficult because it was also the summer that my dad was dealing with cancer in his kidney. To be honest, I still hate thinking about the time we were apart, but we did everything to make it not SO painful. We started our own private Facebook account so that we could leave spontaneous videos for each other on the page and we did "photo journaling" for each week. We'd both have our cameras and just take pictures of things that we were doing or seeing and write captions so that we didn't have to feel so separated by the distance AND time zone. We couldn't talk on the phone because he was out of the country, but we survived it. I think it made us stronger, and it was a good thing to be apart for a certain period of time. It was good knowing the date of when it was going to end!
I totally just babbled on and on, but I just felt like saying that you and Andy will make it through this adventure! I can't wait to read more!