OK, I am a little late to this thread, and found it yesterday, and I was hooked...Good thing dinner practically cooked itself last night.
Your stories touched my heart. When Dh and I got married I already had a 4 and 5 year old. When we were away on vacation to Seaworld in CA, our waitress stopped and commented on how much our 2 children looked like their daddy(we were married less then a year). Silence at the table. We all just kind of sat there, till DD (4) looked at the waitress and said thank you very much, our daddy is cool. DS(5) said, wow, you must be rubbing off on us.. Tears(happy kind), escaped from both of us while the kids munched away
Last year, Daddy walked her down the aisle.(ex would never let him adopt them, even though he has been out of their lives since they were 9 and 8 and they are now 24 and 25)
I am a reverse transplant, born and raised in NJ (very italian family) and now live in the south!!!
I am looking forward to your next TR. Thank you for sharing.