I didn't get my child a gift. This year, I'm not even going to DD14's 8th grade graduation--and to be fair, I didn't go to my older kids', either. Here, and where we used to live, they hold them during the day, not really expecting parents to go. Added bonus this year, DS11 is "graduating" elementary school at the exact same time. I'm going to his ceremony--not to play favorites, but because I tutored math in his classroom for the entire year. So, I'm really going, more to support my math kids. I had to make a choice, and that's what broke the tie.
DD14 was hoping to have a pool party after school on the last day, but I don't think she can. She's in a performance that weekend (last day is Thursday). She'll likely have rehearsal that afternoon/evening.