No need to apologize I felt the same way. Not sure if that post was intended to make me feel like an inferior parent based on this 1 little thing I posted about but it did come off that way. I was also not sure what the point was in any of that in relation to my post. But for comparison purposes, my kids use technology every day sometimes not even for education just for fun! They go to bed at 9-10pm sometimes later on weekends. They clean their rooms and will help around the house if asked but don't have an official chore list. We did used to have a sticker chart for good behavior though when they were little! They don't have any specific learning plan for summer because I feel they deserve an actual summer break from school, but they are both honor roll students and they learn plenty from life experiences as we do alot of mini trips and activities in summer. They both participate in activities such as cheer/dance and band. They were breastfed for over 1 year each, they coslept and were babyworn but I did use disposable diapers lol. They are both healthy, happy, and somewhat spoiled...different parenting styles, similar outcomes, I think I'm doing ok so far. Oh and dh was raised to sit at the table til you have finished your plate, I was raised with little plates that seperated my food so it didn't touch and got dessert even if I didn't eat my veggies lol and we both turned out ok and agree on how to raise our kids.