Tracey, I am so sorry to hear of everything you are going through. That is such a tragedy about Leanne's friend, even moreso since it was avoidable. That was so nice of you (and not a bit surprising) that you had everyone over afterwards.
Sounds like a fun night on the boat, drink a ton of water and that hangover will go away. Gosh, now how do I know that?
So sorry about your possible wage cut, its no fun. When Dan got that call a year ago we knew this would happen with us and it did and life is definitely different but we are surviving. I hope you and Gary can figure things out to make it all work. Its so scary and an unpleasant reminder that you can work hard but some things are just out of our control. And it stinks!
Glad to know Gary's mom is at home and being cared for. Tough times for your family, I am just so sorry.