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Earning My Ears
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Hello, all! I am a relatively new poster to the forums, and as such, this will be my first time posting and maintaining a pre-trip report and, eventually, a trip report as well. But this trip feels like the perfect one to write up my first report for. Why? Because this trip marks the first time that I will be planning and executing a vacation to Walt Disney World on my own, using all the knowledge I’ve gained over the past decade of helping my parents plan and tracking tips on the internet. This is both very exciting and also nerve wracking - the same kind of nerve wracking you feel when trying to carefully walk over a wet tile floor. The kind of nerve wracking where you’re like “I’ll be fine” but the thought of “What if I won’t be fine?” doesn’t quite leave your noggin. But it’s mostly exciting!
Part of the reason for my writing this report is also, admittedly, to spare my friends, family, and partner from bearing the brunt of said excitement. I’ve already talked all of their ears off multiple times at this point, and considering the trip this report will be covering is still over 7 months away… well, I just need a good ole’ outlet for channeling all that energy into. And the people here seem to understand the way Disney parks can stick to your brain like gum to the bottom of your shoe, so this seems to be the perfect place for that energy to be channeled. But also, since this is the first time I’ve planned a trip on my own, I think keeping a thread like this to document all the steps in the process could prove useful to myself in the future. What went well? What didn’t go so well? What was I thinking when I did this? Et cetera, et cetera.
Getting to this point has been quite the process, so the first part of this report will be covered almost diary-style, relaying the who, when, where, and why as they came about, as well as some relevant background. And hopefully you all won’t find it too boring to stick around for!
Just a little note - I'm uploading the first part of this trip report without any images (I'm not particularly comfortable uploading my face online) but I may come back and add some little illustrations at some point. Just to add a little visual pizzazz. Important info will be highlighted in red... I recognize how wordy I can get. I'll try to keep thing humorous and engaging as much as I can, though.
So, without further delay, on with the show!
Who am I?
Let’s start at the beginning (I’ve heard it’s a pretty good place to start.) Who am I? Well –My name is Cam, and I am a 26 year old (as of writing, will be 27 by the time we go to WDW) from Alabama. I’m an archivist - which I simplify the explanation of by describing as being like a “museum curator for paper records.” It paints a clean enough picture, but if you ask me, archival work sits neatly between the work performed by museum curators and librarians, and as such influences both professions as they influence my own. We’re a symbiotic ecosystem, you could say, a trio of crusaders against misinformation (to make it sound a bit cooler than it is.) But aside from my work as an archivist and historian, I have a number of hobbies including art, writing, crochet, cosplay, and theater, and a wide variety of interests including Japanese media, paranormal phenomena, internet culture and history, and, well, as you may guess… theme parks! Though, reading that… it sounds a little out of place with everything else, huh?
My love for theme parks was born when I was 14 years old, when my parents decided to take me and my younger brothers (11 and 9 at the time) to Walt Disney World for the first time. Some may say this is too old for a first trip for taking your kids to WDW, but my family would disagree wholeheartedly. Even if we were old enough to recognize that the characters were people in suits, that we hadn’t actually gone to a different, magical realm; that instead we were visiting a theme park, it didn’t make the experience any less magical. We all have crystal clear memories of that first trip, and I have no doubts that all five of us will remember it for the rest of our lives. It healed our family from a lot of the struggles we’d had in the 3 or 4 years leading up to it - and while a trip to Disney can’t fix everything, it can certainly give you the positive energy needed to get mending. That first trip happened in 2012, and was intended to be a “once in a lifetime” occurrence, a trip where we blew it out of the water because there was no way we could ever afford to come back, right? Right…?
Wrong. Come 2016, 4 years after our first trip, and we find ourselves making the day-long drive down to Orlando again for our second WDW vacation - a trip celebrating my graduation from high school. I wore my graduation Mickey ears to every park, and had cast members that went above and beyond to make the trip truly feel like a celebration. This ended up becoming a little bit of a tradition, with a 2019 trip celebrating my middle brother’s graduation, and then a 2021 trip for my youngest brother’s graduation. Whoops. We may have found ourselves a little addicted. The rest of my family also took a shorter trip in 2023 when my brother moved to Orlando to work in theme park construction (his job is cooler than mine, I know)… but I had just started a new job of my own after finishing my Master’s degree the year before, so it ended up where I was unable to join them. Boo. I’m still just a little bitter about it.
Blah blah blah, that all to say, I love Disney World. Some of my most cherished family memories have been made there, and even though I’m an individual completely unafraid to criticize the company and the decisions they make for the parks, I certainly can’t pretend that I don’t still love them. I love the atmosphere, I love the food, I love the theming, I love it all. Needless to say, I have been trying to figure out a way to get back down to Orlando ever since the 2021 trip.
I just had no idea when that trip would be. We all know that a WDW trip is expensive, after all. I work in a humanities based profession, notoriously NOT the kind of jobs that make the big bucks. And as I type now, I’ve only been in my current job for about a year and a half. I consider myself quite good at saving money, but survival is necessary and Disney is (technically) not. Even with responsible money management on my side, saving to take a trip on my own would take a little while. So, I’d just sucked it up and assumed I probably wasn’t looking at another Disney trip for another three or four years. Basically equivalent to a thousand years of torture, but whatever, right? That was, until…
My Compatriot
… My compatriot entered the picture! This is not a solo trip!Morgan, the deuteragonist of our tale, is my best friend who I’ve known since we were 13 years old. She knows me better than almost anyone, and certainly understands me more than anyone else. We pushed through some of the hardest years of our lives together, but unfortunately drifted apart during our college years - distance can be a cruel thing. Luckily, we’ve reunited in adulthood, now more mature and closer than ever. Morgan is the same age as myself, and works as a nurse about two hours away from where I live. However, we make an effort to spend a day together at least once a month, alternating on who has to make the perilous drive to the other. She shares many of the same interests as I, but she also adores animals and is an incredibly talented musician.
The idea of this trip was born one day when I - who has an incurable case of yapping syndrome - began rambling about my love of Disney parks, and how badly I wanted to go again. Every 2 months or so I go through an insufferable phase where theme parks are practically all I can think or talk about, and usually my boyfriend is the one who kindly suffers the consequences of my obsession. But Morgan also loves theme parks! However, she hasn’t been to WDW since about 2014. She’s been to Universal way more frequently, which included her last trip to Orlando a few years back, which she took with her husband who loves Harry Potter. However, she told me that even though she desperately wanted to visit Disney again, her husband had no interest in going, and balked at the price for visiting whenever she brought it up. Which, well… is understandable. I love the place, but I can’t fault him for that. My boyfriend does the same thing.
Of course, I (half jokingly, but honestly mostly seriously) said I would go with her if she wanted. And, of course, once I’d said that, we both became immediately attached to the idea.
From that moment on, we tossed the idea around for nearly a year; tonally non-serious, but emotionally dead serious. We’re both on a bit of a “healing our inner child” streak, and what better way to heal the inner child than to do something every kid certainly wishes for - a big vacation with their best friend. One where we’re the adults, we get to make our own (possibly questionable) decisions, and just enjoy a week together without worrying about the ever-present burden of the 9 to 5 grind. Oh, and also let our inner foodies off the leash. But, honestly, both of us knew what a huge financial commitment it would be, and it was a smidge intimidating to think about… so the conversations rarely ventured past “we should really do this one day, it’d be fun.”
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