My son does currently have an IEP. It is classified as OHI. We recently. last week, got a diagnosis of aspergers. When we started this process in Sept 2009 I believed he had aspergers. I cited his social complications and his need for structure. At that time we were in a different town. Even they did the evaluations they only looked as hid IQ. HIs OT was denied but cited difficult cutting, with motor skills, and a funnel grasp for pencil. I told the school that I was disappointed that they did not look at him with his peers, that he was denied OT, etc.
We started this school year at Little Egg harbor, we recently moved. At the first meeting I again stated that I did not agree with the IEP. We also agreed that a monthly social worker visit was needed as he had anxiety about school. The team agreed that our concerns sounded like aspergers. They told us about a lunch bunch and that he would be in an inclusion class.
In September I asked for him to be re-evaluated for OT. He qualified and was to receive services once a week.
In October he was hurt at school, the stitches. No one could tell me what was going on during recess. It was at this time that I found at the special education teacher was done for the day at 11. I asked about the lunch bunch and a buddy system. A week later he was being bullied on the bus...
In November I stated that my son was still having a great deal of difficulty. I stated that the second half of his day was very heavy is loosly structured activities and social interaction. Still no word on the lunch bunch and they were not able to find a buddy yet. I stated that my son was suffering, specifically his self esteem. He was constantly saying he hated school and had no friends. At this point I brought recommendations for a psychologist. OT was supposed to be increased to 2x. I also noted that the main teacher was out half the time and that was an issue. On Nov 18 she was out until Jan 18, plans on coming back and then will be out in a month or so for maternity leave. They told me that there was an aid for the second half of the day. However, my son did not know anything about the woman. The special ed teacher told me that she was really just their for one student who was waiting on equipment to come in (I think for an auditory problem)
On the first day back from break I brought the school the diagnosis and recommendations. Asked for a log of when he sees OT, aid or extra pair of eyes for second half of day, consideration for speech services. Asked again about a buddy and lunch bunch to no avail. I also asked for a functional behavior analysis. The woman today stated that they do not see any behavior that would need to be observed. I stated his social difficult, something during the special at the end of the day is triggering him, his low self-esteem, his comment5ting about problems on the bus and his meltdowns at home.
I was informed that with the diagnosis changed to autistic we would have a little more weight as to why he needs these services, instead of that acting like we are making them up. Is this incorrect? Could this be correct due to the way the school has thus handled the sitaution?
Anything else that one might need to know?