This thread is
great! Really enjoying reading everyone's experiences and perspectives.
The Pew Research Center has an online tool to calculate your class and income relative to your area and America at large. Hopefully links are allowed:
http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2016/05/11/are-you-in-the-american-middle-class/
As a kid my parents took myself and my siblings to Magic Kingdom once by staying at a friend's condo and getting us into the parks with a military discount and free passes from the friend's cast member babysitter. We drove in over an hour with a packed lunch. We drove from Ohio to Florida. (I never actually flew on a plane until I was 27.) Our second family trip as a teen was much the same. Stayed for free at the friend's condo, and my dad got some awesome military discount for having spent so much time overseas after 9/11. We spent one day in each park, driving in over an hour each morning and driving home in the evening/afternoon. Packed lunches, although I vaguely recall eating in Italy at Epcot.
According to the Pew evaluation, my husband and I are are lower middle class. I have student loans, but I pay off all credit debt monthly and savings are a priority. Our first visit to Disney property was last year (his first first, my first since childhood and first on property). We did a few nights at a Moderate and one day at MK. It was very expensive relative to what we would normally spend considering the quality of the lodgings and food we got for our money. However, I learned a lot from that experience and am looking to visit again around Christmas. People on here are right- there is so much relativity. I wish the ticket price was a little more reasonable for shorter visits, but it is not crazy in relation to some of the other theme park pricing around the US. For instance, it will cost us over $100 to visit the San Diego zoo, which is about half of what a day in the parks would cost. It's expensive, but it's special.
I do think people over-hype the lodging and the food, and even the parks to some extent. It wasn't paradise. There was trash shoved in the bushes and chipped paint, just like everywhere else. Customer service varied- it wasn't exemplary or magical across the board. The food we tried was mostly gross- but Disney Springs was enjoyable and had good options. Transit varied. The day we were in the park many of the rides were down for weather most of the day. Despite all of this, we enjoyed ourselves and want to go back- simply because it offered us something different than what we normally do. It is also really convenient and relaxing to not have to leave the property and have so many options as far as activities. Just like everything else, pros and cons. It is a bummer how expensive some of the nicer lodging is, and how much the food will cost if you are not on a dining plan relative to the quality. But there are lots of pros too. We have the added benefit of not having known it during the "glory days" toted on these boards when costs were lower and service was better.
We will be visiting San Diego this year and stopping into
Disneyland for a day or two while we are in the area. I will say that we got a nice room right across from the park -literally closer than the Disney owned hotels for (sometimes) hundreds cheaper than most rooms in the WDW area with much more benefits. Free hot breakfast, more amenities in the room and onsite, larger room, etc. I also appreciate how much less planning is necessary. Apples to oranges, but still nice.
You really have to decide where your priorities are if you get past the point of living paycheck to paycheck (which personally took me a while) and have some disposable income after
needs and
savings. For us, we live in a small space and our priority is on experiences over things. (
Konmari anyone?) Right now I can't afford the international travel I'd like to do, and frankly don't feel completely comfortable traveling in some places with everything happening in current events. Thus, I am more interested in the experience a "bubble" or more child-like amusement can offer right now. As a whole though, I much more value trying
new experiences in
new places trying
new things. It's pretty cost effective to use public transit in major cities and use airbnb for lodging, which is how we usually travel. I do think Disney offers a bit of that
new potential- but I would never make it the sole travel destination. There's too much out there that I want to see and experience. I get why it appeals to people though, for sure. Personally I could not
NOT travel for years to spend a week at WDW in a deluxe. That isn't worth it to me. But for some people, it might be. It really depends on the person.
There is a much larger issue of cost of living relative to income and inflation that is happening
outside of the Disney company. It's just more expensive to do anything than it was, and the majority of younger people aren't earning at the same rate as people once were relative to their experience and education. Eventually I hope to be able to afford international trips- or longer trips exploring the National parks, etc. But right now I get stressed thinking about that because who knows if we'll even have the parks to visit or be welcomed internationally when everything shakes down. So again, focusing on the positive small things that will be relaxing and fun which for the moment, is Disney.