Except my son’s disability is not a traditional mobility impairment and does not require a handicap accessible room. So from what people are saying, he wouldn’t qualify for a golf cart. And if he did from what I am hearing he might have a 2 hour wait on the pier for one. Which his disability makes impossible (that’s why they have
DAS at Disney parks). And even if the wait wasn’t too bad, his two brothers would understandably be jealous they had to walk in the sun while their brother got the VIP treatment, when it isn’t easy on anyone.
So yes, we are talking about him, because this absolutely affects him and our whole family.
But I’m also not narrow minded enough to assume that parents of kids without special needs would also find this challenging. It’s why the stroller rental business is booming at disney world, so many kids need help on longer walks than they do at home.
And this also affects ordinary adults who are not officially disabled but are prone to fainting in heat, not physically fit (which despite all the snide comments in this thread is not some sort of moral failure) or like my husband right now who is a physically fit marathon runner most times but a is dealing with a muscle injury at the moment that makes walking painful, yet I know if we were there right now he would walk through the pain and never request a golf cart for himself, partly out of wanting to leave it for people who need it more than him, and partly because he would have to leave me to wrangle three kids on my own, since again, there are not enough golf carts for families to ride together. I imagine there are lots of older folks who feel the same and would rather stick together as a family and yes that’s a choice but it’s a crummy one to have to make on vacation.
So no, we (1) do get talk about disabled people, because the system isn’t well designed for them either, and (2) we get to talk about everyone else too, because you don’t need a disability to be inconvenienced by this.
And I am not cancelling my cruise. My cruise is paid in full, flights are booked, DVC points used for the hotel stay, time off obtained at work (and our company has a use it or lose it vacation policy) and family has been looking forward to it since disney first announced a new island, and I am very much hopeful disney will have made this better by the time we go. If they don’t we will survive of course, but I if nothing changes it will surely be an unpleasant experience, and I have every right to be unhappy about that because Disney cruises are our happy place and are usually the one place we can go where everyone has a great time.