I just looked it up. It is actually a little less than$300 for Dec. 9 - 13RP for $300 - definitely not in December.
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I just looked it up. It is actually a little less than$300 for Dec. 9 - 13RP for $300 - definitely not in December.
I'm going to be maybe the odd one out here but, I say let them do their own thing. Do you tell everyone else you give gifts to how to use them?Sending my daughter and her fiancé to WDW by themselves in December (xmas gift and chance to "adult" a little)
Neither are good at planning, getting up early, Genie+ (or whatever its name is now) or being organized. I've always down all this and they just followed alone (shout out to all the uber planning moms!!!)
They'd never make it to rode drop. They sleep till noon most days lol
If I don't do a little pre planning, they will just show up at the wrong park, on the wrong day and get into a few long longs and waste their trip
I'm gonna have them stay at one of the all star hotels to make transportation easy.
Thinking of maybe booking them MNSSHP and Jollywood Nights, then maybe get a 2 or 3 day pass for the other parks.
They are really only interested in rides and just being at Disney. (not into characters, shows etc)
Would this be the best way for them to do the rides?
I'm wrestling with allowing them to do this themselves and not wasting a ton of money for a trip that they couldn't get anything done.
Could do a Christmas party at MK and Jollywood nights at HS. Maybe skip daytime tickets for those days?Do they want this, or do you want this? I do not mean that to be snarky at all, just wondering who has the highest interest in a December trip to Disney for these kids? If they are not showing an interest, it is a lot of money to spend. Maybe your kids would do better at Universal. Still fun, less planning.
They are adults. They should be able to vacation the way they want. If you need to set every step for them, you should just go with them and make it a family trip.
FYI - MNSSHP isn't going on in December.
As adults they should be able to do whatever they want. Why are you planning this for them? I understand its a gift, but no one wants a gift with strings attached.Sending my daughter and her fiancé to WDW by themselves in December (xmas gift and chance to "adult" a little)
Neither are good at planning, getting up early, Genie+ (or whatever its name is now) or being organized. I've always down all this and they just followed alone (shout out to all the uber planning moms!!!)
They'd never make it to rode drop. They sleep till noon most days lol
If I don't do a little pre planning, they will just show up at the wrong park, on the wrong day and get into a few long longs and waste their trip
I'm gonna have them stay at one of the all star hotels to make transportation easy.
Thinking of maybe booking them MNSSHP and Jollywood Nights, then maybe get a 2 or 3 day pass for the other parks.
They are really only interested in rides and just being at Disney. (not into characters, shows etc)
Would this be the best way for them to do the rides?
I'm wrestling with allowing them to do this themselves and not wasting a ton of money for a trip that they couldn't get anything done.
This sound like a great title for a book.How will they ever survive marriage if they can't survive Disney?
I have a 20 year old and 23 year old son that are currently on a family trip that I had to duck out of last minute due to a cancer diagnosis and need for immediate surgery. I wondered if they would spend their days sleeping in and not doing much in the room I had paid for. When I was out of the picture, they rose to the occasion, planned, and executed all the details themselves. I guess they don’t need me anymore, but that’s a glorious realization, especially under the circumstances. Your daughter and her finance may surprise you. I think if you have historically been the planner, they may have just trusted your planning and gone with it. It doesn’t mean they are not capable of planning themselves. I also think it is ok if they sleep until noon. Also even ok if they show up at the wrong park on the wrong day. Mistakes like that can be invaluable. If you want to gift them the trip, do it, and then don’t think anymore of it. The rest is up to them. Let them plan all of it. Hope they have a wonderful trip! I can tell you want what’s best for them.Sending my daughter and her fiancé to WDW by themselves in December (xmas gift and chance to "adult" a little)
Neither are good at planning, getting up early, Genie+ (or whatever its name is now) or being organized. I've always down all this and they just followed alone (shout out to all the uber planning moms!!!)
They'd never make it to rode drop. They sleep till noon most days lol
If I don't do a little pre planning, they will just show up at the wrong park, on the wrong day and get into a few long longs and waste their trip
I'm gonna have them stay at one of the all star hotels to make transportation easy.
Thinking of maybe booking them MNSSHP and Jollywood Nights, then maybe get a 2 or 3 day pass for the other parks.
They are really only interested in rides and just being at Disney. (not into characters, shows etc)
Would this be the best way for them to do the rides?
I'm wrestling with allowing them to do this themselves and not wasting a ton of money for a trip that they couldn't get anything done.
I guess I’m just part of the choir here - you’re giving them a very generous gift, but I’d step back and let them do their own thing. If it’s a chance to “adult” a little, you need to give them that chance.Sending my daughter and her fiancé to WDW by themselves in December (xmas gift and chance to "adult" a little)
Also to people insinuating that OP is being too controlling: our kids are so busy with jobs/life, they’ve said they appreciate when I plan a vacation for them. Granted, we are all going together, but they are willing to do what they are told, when they are told to do it. We also give them some time on their own. They are a couple after all. They know they would not get a vacation at all if they had to do the planning as they just don’t have the time to plan it.
I agree with your overall point but wouldn't say mistake. How someone vacations is entirely their own thing. And it takes doing vacations, especially on your own, to figure out what you like and don't like, what you found someone else did (more like a parent) that you liked or didn't like. What is a priority or what you feel is valued.They are adults. People learn from their mistakes. If Mom bulldozes ahead of them clearing all problems in advance, they don't learn. How will they ever survive marriage if they can't survive Disney?
The OP has said the followingAlso to people insinuating that OP is being too controlling: our kids are so busy with jobs/life, they’ve said they appreciate when I plan a vacation for them. Granted, we are all going together, but they are willing to do what they are told, when they are told to do it. We also give them some time on their own. They are a couple after all. They know they would not get a vacation at all if they had to do the planning as they just don’t have the time to plan it.
Also to people insinuating that OP is being too controlling: our kids are so busy with jobs/life, they’ve said they appreciate when I plan a vacation for them. Granted, we are all going together, but they are willing to do what they are told, when they are told to do it. We also give them some time on their own. They are a couple after all. They know they would not get a vacation at all if they had to do the planning as they just don’t have the time to plan it.
Sending my daughter and her fiancé to WDW by themselves in December
Separate rooms of course.......have them stay at one of the all star hotels