Warning - I just need to vent.
My DD1's boyfriend is on my naughty list. I'm really PO'd at him.
We visited Orlando to see my DD1 and DD2 for Christmas. They both live there. Before driving up from Miami (where we winter) I needed to decide about flying home to NY to continue getting our house there ready to list for sale this coming spring. We would either fly directly from MIA/FLL or could drive up to Orlando and fly out of MCO. DD1's 26th birthday is coming up in mid-January. I asked her if she had plans with friends, etc. Obviously, she would rather celebrate with them most times.
She said she had no plans, so we planned to drive up 2 weeks after returning from Orlando to celebrate her birthday with her before flying back to NY from MCO. We would leave our vehicle at her house and she would drive us to the airport.
Just before I purchased non-refundable tickets on JetBlue, I called to double check with her again. She was happy we were coming. As the flight was about 3 weeks away, I purchased the Basic Blue for $89/pp ow + $15 for advance seating because I was feeling flush. I think regular Blue was like $50? more per person? We had no luggage as we were flying home. I got to use my new Barclay JB MC.
Her BF had the entire week off for Christmas and was staying at the house. He lives and works in Tampa. We found out recently. Too crowded at the house for our liking. No biggie. We used my parents' MX timeshare and did an exchange with Interval International into Orlando. There are always some availability in Orlando. We normally prefer to stay at one of the Marriott Vacation Club resorts but there were only studios and one bedrooms available or the dates were off, like the week after Christmas.
We picked a 2 bedroom at the Westgate Blue Tree Resort in Lake Buena Vista to exchange into. That way DD2 can stay with us some nights. The unit was old but clean. It was perfectly fine for our needs. The LOCATION WAS PERFECT. It was a block away from the intersection of Palm Parkway and 535. Convenient to the Daryl Carter area for food options. We just slept there. We didn't use any of the facilities or amenities.
We celebrated Christmas early including the BF on Sunday and Monday because DD1 had off. We had dinner at La Luce at the Hilton Signa. One of the best meals we have had at Disney in a long while.
DD1 had to work on Christmas Eve and on Christmas Day. She drove to BF's parents house (about 45 mins from Disney) after work on Christmas Eve (after 10pm) and stayed over and then drove back to get to work at 12:30pm on Christmas Day. BF's family opens Christmas gifts on Christmas morning.
At his family's gift opening event, DD1's BF gifted her a Birthday Cruise for Christmas!! It's actually a wonderful and extravagant gift. But he kept that gift a secret the entire time and told NO ONE. He planned it months ago and thought he was a mastermind in keeping it a total secret. but he didn't consider ALL the variables! I am NOT a fan of travel surprises. Lol.
The cruise is for a full week and sails out of FLL. She leaves before we get to Orlando and will be gone the entire week. He arranged to car pool from Tampa with another couple traveling and so, she can't come down early to see us in Miami and even if we drive up earlier, she will be going to Tampa to car pool from there.
DD1 had to beg her manager for time off last minute (cruise is in 2 weeks). Good thing he thought it was "romantic."
Now we have to drive 4+ hours to Orlando, only to have to Uber to the airport from her empty house! The cancellation fee for the flight is more $ than the ticket, so we are just going to suck it up. We could have just flown out of MIA/FLL for less money!! I am soooooo salty about it all.
I mean if it didn't involve non-refundable tickets, it wouldn't be a big deal and I wouldn't care and would be happy for her. I waited almost to the last minute to even purchase these tickets and now I'm kicking myself.
DH says not to make a big deal out of it TO THEM and rain on their parade. DD1 feels bad but it truly isn't her fault because she didn't know when she okayed me to buy our tickets. If I vent too much, it will put a damper on her trip and I don't want to do that to her.
If I vent to family and friends, it will influence what they think of the BF who maybe one day will be part of the family. DH has heard enough venting from me and doesn't want to hear more because he is upset at the upcoming waste of a drive, especially since he will be doing all the driving!
I am still upset and still need to VENT!!!! So, here I am venting to my Dis friends who I hope will understand my upset and disappointment when perfect travel plans get derailed by unforeseen and unexpected forces that are beyond our control!!!! And since that "force" is the BF, I can't help but put all the blame on him and be kind of angry at him. He stayed in my home when we all went to the Taylor Swift concert in Miami, just 2 months ago. He couldn't have pulled me aside and told me and asked me to keep it a secret and not to plan anything myself! DH says that in the future when we make any plans involving our DD, we may need to ask her to specifically ask her BF to okay them before we commit.
ARGHHHHHH!!!!! He has NOT earned any brownie points from me!!! His only saving grace right now is that he treats her well and she seems happy. Momma's not liking the boyfriend ruining her plans and costing her $$$ and wasting her time and energy!!!!!!!