Sadly, I’m dealing with this.
Alas I’m only the associate, but I’m also the only one who has been using the points happily. Funny, since HE was the one who insisted on purchasing bay lake.
He’s willing to just hand it over to me with no compensation (I have nothing to give and need everything he’s giving me).
But that seems to mean maybe first putting me on then taking him off. Two years ago I was trying to put me on, and I read everything here, but could NOT figure out how to do it.
And honestly, as my lawyer (still cannot get used to that) says... while I’m trying to get my life going and figuring out what I’ll do so I’m making a living in 5 years when spousal support is gone and my son is an adult, it’s not the time for Disney trips.
So I think I’m going to agree to sell and we’ll split the money.
Sigh.
I’ll buy in at VGF resale someday. Maybe.
Right now, aside from the anger I have over how he did all of this (I was 100% blindsided, no final argument, no “I wanna divorce!”...just being surprise-served with papers with my son right next to me), if he wanted to use the points, I could see it working. For a time. But I can also see it going very icky.
As the associate I didn’t have the perks unless he was with me (usually). And he hasn’t gone to a WDW park since January 2015. So...