I'm sure I have out did any of your complaints in the 50+ trips that we have been on and I do not even give a second thought about being on their naughty list. I have demanded to see the manager at our resort because of the lack of effort from the desk CM to change the bad room we were given. I have sent Guest services a couple of emails over the years, and one of them I sent an email to guest services and CC'd the person in charge of Guest Service and 3 executives including Iger. So as you can see, they probably have a decent file on me. LOL
Yet, we still do very well getting our room requests, late check outs are based on resort occupant levels, so hit or miss there, but as for extra pixie dust we never got that regularly, that is why it's special. Truthfully I think you are making a mountain out of a very small ant hill.